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Zero to 1: Are you One or Many?

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Jun 03, 2025

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Les Demoiselles d'Avignon (1907) by Pablo Picasso – Artchive
Pablo Picasso - "Les Demoiselles d'Avignon" (1907)

6 INSIGHTFUL QUESTIONS

I.

You don't have one identity; you have many. Like actors in a play, different aspects of yourself step forward depending on the scene and the audience.

II.

Your personal identity is built from your experiences, beliefs, and the stories you tell about who you are. Your social identity emerges from the roles you play—parent, professional, friend—and the groups you belong to.

III.

Above these sits your ego identity, the narrator that weaves all these fragments into a cohesive story called "me." This is the voice that says, "I am someone who..." and believes this story completely.

IV.

Most of your identity operates below the surface, invisible even to yourself. You remain unaware of having multiple identities until chaos strikes - losing a job, children growing up, a loved one passing— and suddenly a part of who you thought you were disappears, leaving you questioning everything.

V.

When the roles fall away and identities dissolve, what remains?

If who you are can come and go, then what is it that recognizes these changes without being touched by them?

VI.

Something in you can observe all these different selves, like watching actors on a stage. This observer isn't another identity but the awareness that makes all identity possible, the space in which all your various selves appear and disappear.

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5 Quotes

I.

"Each of us is several, is many, is a profusion of selves."

Fernando Pessoa

II.

"We all have multiple selves. The true self and the false self. The self we show the world and the self we keep hidden."

Oprah Winfrey

III.

"We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be."

Kurt Vonnegut

IV.

"No man can wear one face to himself and another to the multitude without finally getting bewildered as to which may be true"

Nathaniel Hawthorne

V.

"You are not who you think you are. You are not your thoughts. You are not your emotions. You are not your body. You are the awareness that observes all of these."

Michael Singer

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Who you are today is different than who you were in the past, yet you still refer to the old version of you as ‘me’ even though it was a very different ‘me.’

What is it that has remained the same throughout your entire life?

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